This post is part of CTC’s Reflections from our Clinicians series. These series consists of blogs written in the first person narrative, meant to reflect our values of independence while ensuring a broader diversity of topics, styles and opinions.

The recent shooting in Texas is generating conversations regarding mental health, gun control and domestic violence. President Trump’s statement about the shooting and his quick link and blame to mental health issues, rather than domestic violence is not surprising from a man who embodies misogyny. Having counseled both domestic violence survivors and abusers, I can say that domestic violence is not a mental health problem, it’s a cultural problem. Men (as in most cases the perpetrators are men) do not abuse women because of some unexplained mental health disorder, but because they are taught through culture, and society, that women are less than them, that women are Objects/property, and that they can and should be controlled. President Trump whose anti-choice pussy-grabbing woman-hater statements are all over the news, is a clear example of this.

It is my hope that the recent tragedy in Texas will facilitate conversations about domestic violence and also about gun control, power and aggression, as well as access to psychotherapy and the problems with managed care. At this time, we know that the shooter (who I consciously chose not to name throughout this essay) had a history of domestic violence, as well as a history of aggression, and that at some point he was receiving some type of mental health services from an institution that he escaped/fled. Based on this current information, it is easy and simple, to blame the incident on mental health issues. However, events such as these are never simple. Researched coupled with my experience as a psychotherapist, shows that folks with mental health issues are not more violent, or more prone to violence than the general population. I caution against correlating mental illness with violence so quickly, as the connection is not apparent or simple. Worse, connecting metal illness with violence further stigmatizes mental illness, and discourages people who need services from acquiring them.

I started in this field by studying Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), with a particular interest in torture. Early on in my career this focus was on political and religious persecutions, however with time, I slowly realized that the most horrific atrocities and torture does not occur in the public sphere but in private ones, in our homes. It is easier to understand political and religious motivated torture than personal torture. Psychologically it seems more logical, easier to work through the process and to heal from political or state sanctioned torture, than it is from torture suffered at the hands of a parent or a loved one. As a result, my focus and interests shifted towards issues such as: domestic violence, childhood sexual abuse, and family violence to name but a few.

Terrorism is politically motivated violence meant to control the behavior of others, and domestic violence is motivated violence and manipulation intended to control and scare anOther. Abusers are terrorists in their own homes, lashing out violently against their partners, children and/or other family members systematically and periodically, in order to control them and to exert power over them. This controlling behavior, similar to political torture is motivated by ideology, by rigid ideas such as gender roles, femininity, autonomy and power.

As the recent report released by Everytown.org shows, domestic violence perpetrators share qualities with terrorists, namely: they are willing to die for their beliefs. Further, much in line with terrorists, in 56% of cases of domestic violence related mass murder, the killer committed suicide. These are men (and, yes, mostly men ) who chose their last few moments on earth to be an act of anger, and a display of power and control over people who, at some point, had loved them. These men are also victims of a society that teaches boys to dominate and control and teaches girls that they are the weaker sex. Domestic violence is not inevitable or a mental health problem, it comes from cultural attitudes and messages.

The shooting in Texas, also offers us an opportunity to reflect on mental health issues, since it seems that the shooter also had a history of mental health problems. Although we do not know the shooter’s mental health diagnosis we know that he was receiving some services at some point. This shooting can be a small example of the need for more affordable and comprehensive mental health services. The gatekeepers – insurance companies — are often more eager to cover medication than talk therapy, however we know that medication alone does not work. Worse, in some cases insurance companies decide to terminate payment for treatment based on the amount of session or time, rather than the patient’s well-being. For others, who lack health insurance there are even fewer options if/when they need mental health services but cannot pay for them.

Lastly, we as a nation need to be mindful that the personal will always be political, meaning this tragedy and the shooter is a product of our times. We live in a war culture that promotes violence and competition. Through movies, video games, narratives of war and destruction, our access to weapons, our ideology reflects a discourse of aggression. Whether we publicly talk about hunting terrorists, or claim that we strongly believe in the competition of the market, or that women need to be controlled, we promote discourses of domination and subjugation. Not surprisingly the shooter also at some point joined the military, another institution that adheres to strict rules and admires the powerful. In this world view, one is either attacked or attacks. Although we do not know or understand the shooter’s motives for the shooting, we can see how he is a product of a society that reveres the strong and punishes the weak. The time has come to change this!

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New York, October 2, 2017 — Sunday’s tragedy in Las Vegas is deeply disturbing.  As the deadliest shooting in modern U.S. history, it is heartbreaking.  We are deeply saddened and our condolences go out to the victims and their families.

As information is slowly disseminating, and more details are surfacing, two major thoughts come to our mind.  First, the apparent problems the United States has with guns and the gun industry.  Although we still do not have all the details, The New York Times reports that recordings taken from the shooting suggests the use of one automatic weapon.  The fact that the shooter was able to obtain such gun, or any gun, is disturbing and should alert all of us to the power of the NRA and the problems with our laws regarding guns.

Secondly, this event is about violence, it is about aggression and fear.  We live in a culture that glorifies power and violence as exemplified by president Trump.

Years ago Marshall Rosenberg claimed that the use of violence (psychological and physical) is learned though culture.  Now more than even we need to learn the practice of nonviolent communication, and be reminded that all human beings have capacity for compassion.  Rosenberg believed that humans resort to violence or behavior that harms others only when they don’t recognize more effective strategies for meeting their needs. Or, when those strategies are not practiced or exemplified in their world.  Are we teaching our kids those strategies?  Do we practice them every day with one another?  Do we interrogate our own power with Others?

 

 

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On September 14, 2017 we celebrated Critical Therapy Center’s Five Year Anniversary.  I want to thank everyone who came out and celebrated with me, with us. It was an awesome evening!

I especially like to thank all our speakers are presenters.  Kalima our gracious and wonderful host, Dennis for joining us, Megan for talking so eloquently and passionately about the many services we offer and Nikita for her powerful and heartfelt performance.

Kalima DeSuze, Megan Chinn, Silvia Dutchevici & Eleni Zimiles

I also want to thank the many people who made the evening possible, Del  for the video design and Kaija for her wonderful narration that made it all come together so perfectly.  George for the elegant posters, Jon for taping and taking pictures, without even knowing he was there, and Jackie for making it all run smoothly.  Our volunteers, Matthew and Stefanny for helping us and believing in our work.  And Eleni, for helping us set up, clean up and for being such a supportive team member.

Most importantly, I want to thank all of you, our audience: friends, family, patients, colleagues and partners for showing up, for being with us, for your ongoing support, and love.   Together, we are building our beloved community, while envisioning new ways of being in the world grounded in compassion, liberation, and empowerment.  We thank you all for the trust you continue to give us and we are touched by the love we share.

For those of you who missed it, we’ve included some pictures and links to the video we presented explaining what makes critical therapy different than other psychotherapies.  Also, in the coming weeks we plan on posting some footage from the event, so please follow us on Facebook

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Come celebrate Critical Therapy Center’s 5 Year Anniversary!

Join us for an exciting opportunity to learn more about our training program, enjoy a spoken word performance by Nikita Chaudhry, and network with an amazing community of people doing transformative work. This event will be hosted by Kalima DeSuze and feature a lively public dialogue between social critical psychologist Dennis Fox and our founder Silvia Dutchevici. We will explore topics such as: critical psychology, critical therapy, social justice and the role of politics within psychology. We promise an evening of celebration!

In line with our philosophy, our tickets are based on a sliding scale. Purchase your ticket here.

Dennis Fox Dennis Fox is a social psychologist, an academic, a writer, and an activist. His co-edited book Critical Psychology is now standard text for radical and critical psychologists in the United States and abroad. He has published numerous articles and has done extensive academic work on the interconnections among psychology, law and justice. Dr. Fox was a professor of legal studies and psychology at the University of Illinois at Springfield. Using a perspective building on anarchism and critical psychology, he is especially concerned about mainstream psychology’s support for an unjust status quo. More recently, Dr. Fox has been involved with the Occupy Boston movement and now he is focusing on his photography.

SMDSilvia Dutchevici is a psychotherapist and the founder of the Critical Therapy Center, which she started in recognition of the need to expand psychoanalytic praxis to include and be mindful of the ways race, class, gender and religion interact with psychological conflicts. She has presented on critical therapy at many academic conferences. She has lectured at New York University and Fordham University and been featured in: Huffington Post, Psychology Today, International Business Times and Women’s Health. Prior to founding the Critical Therapy Center, Silvia worked for different organizations such as Queens Pride House, Sanctuary for Families, the Arab American Family Support Center, the Ms. Foundation for Women, and the International League for Human Rights.

KdeSKalima DeSuze is an Afro-Latinx Black feminist/womanist anti-oppression social worker. Since her transition from the U.S. Army in 2004, Kalima’s work has been dedicated to addressing the systems of oppression that most directly impacts her experiences, specifically: working to eradicate racism and gender-based violence. She has collaborated with grassroots organizations such as: Voices of Women Organizing Project (VOW), Service Women’s Action Network (SWAN), Girls Education and Mentoring Services (GEMS), Black Women’s Blueprint (BWB) and, the Undoing Racism Internship Project (URIP). Currently, she is the assistant direct of field education at Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College, City University of New York.

NikCHNikita Chaudhry is an actor, dancer, singer, choreographer, and activist currently based in NYC. Her work extends from stage to screen, recently seen in An Unexpected Thing Happens at Theaterlab, Portraits at the Skirball Center for Performing Arts, RIBS at Planet Connections Theatre Festivity, and in movie theaters worldwide in The Spectacular Jihad of Taz Rahim (2015). Nikita has a deep-rooted passion for social change and public policy. Engaging in both animal activism and LGBTQ activism at a young age, followed by creating programs and conversations around race and diversity, she continues to learn more through her service work, employment, and daily life. She hopes that her work will continue to serve as a catalyst for social change, and reimagine an inclusive and diverse entertainment industry.

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On January 21, 2017, we marched on the streets of New York City.  We marched to support women.  We marched for a better world. We marched in memory of our mothers, grandmothers and the women who came before us. We marched for our daughters and granddaughters, and we marched for our sons and for men and women who envision a better world. We marched because we imagine a different world.

We marched for health care and mental health. We marched for human rights and women’s rights. We marched against a culture and a society that our current president, Donald Trump exemplifies, for he is the symptom and not the problem. We marched against a system that undervalues women, and minorities, and anyone who is Other. We marched against homophobia, transphobia and xenophobia. We marched against exploitation, torture and racism. We marched for dignity for everyone.  We marched because we care!

The New York Women’s March was a sister event of what began as a modest call to action on Facebook the night after Trump’s election and has now come to be known as the Women’s March on Washington – an organized political rally in Washington DC, one of the larger political demonstrations ever staged in the US capital. Sister events took place in cities around the world.

We have chosen to share a few links that capture the spirit of the day.

 

 

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